Over my years as a Ryan Adams fan, I’ve heard several different things about this song. Probably the most popular “rumor” about it is that it’s a response to the Britney Spears song of the same title. I had read that he felt the lyrics in her song were sexist, and felt like it was unfair. I was skeptical when I first heard it, because I thought he was above starting a back-and-forth with someone like Britney. But he went ahead and proved me wrong, because when I did a search online to find out if he had addressed this theory anywhere, I found this in a Rolling Stone interview:
I just recently started writing songs in reaction to other songs. One song I was working on last week was called “Boys,” which is a reaction to “Boys” by Britney Spears. I wanted to write a song in defense of men, because we’re not all players. There are romantics who don’t think about panty lines and don’t talk shit about women. And just because Britney can’t find one doesn’t mean that I’m supposed to be chastised for it. The song doesn’t attack Britney or anything, it attacks this preconceived notion that men cannot be romantic intellectuals.
Ironically enough, the next question they asked him was what music he listens to when making out…